Christiane told her social worker about a solution she found herself.
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And my social worker tells me, she says—because at one point, I found, I knew that there were employment service vouchers, because you can hire someone who has the expertise, for example, to take care of your husband, and who is paid by the… by the CLSC. It’s me who discovered that! Through talking, like word of mouth, you know. And when I spoke to her about it, she said, “Ah! I wasn’t aware of that!” So, I did the follow-up, I searched, I called, and in the end I learned that yes, it existed. So, I called her boss, and I told her, “Yes, it does exist, this is what has to be done, and no more problems.” So she calls me back and was not in a good mood. She said, “You went above my head.” “Because you didn’t have an answer to give me, I had to find the answers.” So I told her, “I got my answers.” Well, she said, “I will hire you as a resource person.” But for me, that wasn’t a compliment that she was making, because me, I had the strength to do it, but my sister-in-law, she wouldn’t have the strength to do it.
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- Legal issues -ChristianeGetting a mandate in case of incapacity costs a lot of money, which Christiane is unable to pay at this moment.
- The future and caregiving – ChristianeChristiane knows she needs a break; she worries about what will happen to her husband if she gets sick.
- Support from family and friends – ChristianeChristiane finds it difficult to ask friends for help, especially since she is not able to pay them.
- Social impact and lifestyle changes – ChristianeChristiane feels isolated because it seems that her friends don’t want to visit anymore.
- Resources – ChristianeThanks to arrangements made possible by her support group, Christiane is able to attend conferences and other activities organized by the caregivers group.
- Providing support – ChristianeOne weekend, Christiane had to move her husband in bed. And with her back problem, she wonders what might happen if she had to do it again.
- Navigating the system – ChristianeChristiane had to make many phone calls to arrange for things like a wheelchair and home care support.
- Interaction with professionals – ChristianeChristiane told her social worker about a solution she found herself.
- Hospitals and facilities (2) – ChristianeChristiane has to check-up regularly on how the facility is caring for her husband.
- Hospitals and facilities – ChristianeChristiane struggled with the decision to move her husband to a facility; her parents helped her make the decision.